It is Not About the Nail. Billy Jack. America. Some Interesting Answers. It is All About Respect.
Quote of the Week: “To listen well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.” – Chief Justice John Marshall
There has been and will always be the critical life skill of speaking. We put a high value with effective speaking and communication including public speaking and writing skills to help youngsters grow into their desired career paths. This is all good and necessary but what about the skill of listening?
Why has the listening skill been left on the table? Why is this skill not supported by curriculum similar to speaking and communication skills? How do we expect children and young adults to adhere to a high level of listening skills when no one has been taught to listen? How can we expect adults to make the best-informed decisions if they have not ever been taught to listen?
According to Joseph DeVito, who developed The Humanistic Interpersonal Communication Model, there are five essential stages of listening:
Receiving – The process of hearing the message.
Understanding – The act of learning the meaning of the message.
Remembering – The essential skill by applying what was said in ways that are meaningful to you.
Evaluating – Or, judging the value of the message which obviously will vary from one person to another.
Responding – The act of providing feedback and your indication of involvement.
There is no doubt that listening, depending on the circumstance, can be challenging. The five stages of listening do seem obvious, but then again, when was the last time you were introduced to someone only to forget their name five minutes later?
I am sure you have seen the “It’s Not About the Nail” video. Though a bit on the silly side, the video drives home the point that the man is trying to solve her problem without really listening to her issues and how she is feeling. Come on, it is not like men do not listen! đ
Movie Scene of the Week: The “kick” is still talked about, and the line Billy Jack (Tom Laughlin) delivers is still a classic. As described above, the moron should have listened a bit better. The world could use a few more Billy Jacks right now.
A happy upcoming 4th of July weekend to you and yours. I hope that no one takes our Independence with a grain of salt, especially considering some of the chaos, terrorism, and war happening at home and abroad. I was surprised that Independence Day was only declared a federal holiday in 1941, considering the United States is celebrating it’s 249th birthday. On July 2, 1776, the Continental Congress voted in favor of independence and two days later, on July 4, delegates from the thirteen colonies adopted the Declaration of Independence, drafted by the one and only Thomas Jefferson.
If you have a flag, please fly it. If you do not have one, The Home Depot, Lowe’s, and Ace Hardware have flag kits for under $15.00. To our Canadian friends: you celebrate Canada Day this coming TuesdayâŠ.and my experience with Canadians tells me most of you will be celebrating all week long!
In a time that the United States must step forward, this speech includes one of the best military directives and warnings, with the coldest line spoken in the last twenty years. Unfortunately, the reminder to the world still resonates today.
There is so much noise regarding the 14th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution. The same goes for the War Powers Act. I will not dive into the politics surrounding the 14th Amendment but if there is a challenge to a Constitutional Amendment, should process and procedure not follow by reaching a two-thirds majority in both chambers of Congress? Regarding the War Powers Act, both President Bush and President Obama engaged in military actions without congressional approval. Why would last weekend’s bombing in Iran be any different?
Again, these are questions I have regarding both topics without engaging in the strange world of politics. Your take on both subjects is appreciated.
This week’s Question of the Week generated many interesting answers. I asked “If you and one other person found yourself stuck on a deserted island, what three things would you want to have with you?”
Three things I would want on a deserted island would be lip balm/gloss, quick dry towel, and toothpaste/mouthwash (only because someone else is on the island with me). đ
Something to light a fire, something to purify water and a knife.
A gun and 2 more females. Thatâs all I need.
Drinkable water, yoga mat, hat! Lol.
Lip balm, a picture of my children and my bible.
Satellite phone, matches, a cow.
Johnnie Walker Black, a good jazz station, and the Bible.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: If you could time travel, which era would you visit, and why?
Pure Talent. While Denzel Washington is best known for his roles in motion pictures and television, he also provides motivational videos that cover a variety of topics. I came across this short video and his words should resonate with all of us. Denzel, for many reasons, is Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday.
Training the Mind. Takes on Negotiation and Energy. We Are Going to Need a Bigger Boat. Bunker Buster? Did it Pan Out? Summer Madness.
Quote of the Week:“You have to train your mind as much as your body.” – Venus Williams
Increasing or improving your training usually results in efforts to affect physical improvements. The reality is that focusing on your physical attributes often results in overlooking the intangibles of training, including managing stress, improving focus, and channeling aggression. There is no doubt that training is just as mentally demanding as it is physical, so it is obvious that all of us need to mentally train as well.
One way to mentally train is through mental imagery. The simple explanation is the process of visualizing oneself performing a task and tricking the body into thinking that the task is actually being performed. There are many examples of mental imagery and here are two that come to mind: 1) Preparing for running a 10K race, and imagining how you will run the race from the start to the 5K mark, and from the 5K mark to the finish line; 2) Getting yourself ready for a public speaking engagement is not only about rehearsing, but mentally preparing and imagining the way you open the presentation, how you handle interstitials, and how you close the presentation ensuring you have stayed on point and within the time allowance.
Michael Phelps breaks down how and why he used visualization (a.k.a. mental imagery) to prepare for competition.
Last week’s post covered the topics of negotiation and energy. Both subjects generated a response – both interesting and informative:
Regarding my take on negotiation tactics:
“Interesting read about Vossâ philosophy (strategy) for negotiations. As the focus of my doctoral thesis, I used âFuture Scenario Planningâ, a method of strategic planning used originally by the military but also by major corporations such as Royal Dutch Shell, which helped them through the oil crisis of the 70âs. Basic idea is you develop a matrix of possible future scenarios depending on the âblack swansâ in culture and society. In this case, what are the major cultural, financial, or societal shifts that might occur and change the direction of society and how might they affect âusâ as a corporation/entity. Desired outcome is that you want to position yourself/company to thrive in as many of the quadrants (should they come to pass) as possible. Clear as mud, I know, but the key is discerning the âblack swansâ. The guy I worked with on the project called them âbouldersâ rolling down the hill which we donât see.“
Tracy A. is an executive with an energy concern and provided her insight into the go-forward with solar energy:
“Thank you for the opportunity to discuss energy. Everything I say here is my own opinion but informed by the work I do in the industry. In Texas over 30% of the power generated for daily use is generated from solar or wind. However, both solar and wind are unreliable at times as power sources, like when the sun goes down at night. Many residential customers are looking for ways to use solar with battery storage in their homes as a way to reduce their energy costs and for many this is a very good investment, but it is an investment. That combination could cost $30k or more which is not realistic for most homeowners. I think we will see a surge in solar investment through the end of 2025 when the tax credits will be eliminated.
For the future, I think small modular reactors are very interesting as a power source. There are many companies investing in it now, like Amazon and Google. My perspective is that we need it all. I think its great that we determined how to harness the wind and sun, but we need natural gas plants and nuclear power to continue to use energy the way that we have always used and enjoyed it. Which brings me to the Landman. I agree with the monologue in this clip â its just not as simple as we would like for it to be, there are always trade-offs. There is much to be discovered in the energy industry which is why I do love being a part of it!“
The Reality Check Moment of the Week: This past Friday saw us reach a milestone. Fifty years ago, this movie kept millions of people out of the water at beaches across the world. On a $3 million budget, Steven Spielberg’s second theatrical release, Jaws, was both shocking and a bit disturbing at the same time. The Jaws theme will forever be correlated with imminent danger.
I have been asked by a few readers to comment on the Iran-Israel conflict. A dilemma as I really try to stay from both politics and religion. What I will provide is my viewpoint regarding the nuclear proliferation issues between the two countries, and for that matter with the United States and many countries around the world.
I do not like war. The Middle East has bubbled up again and that really bothers me.
Before the 1979 revolution that replaced the Imperial State of Iran with the Islamic Republic of Iran, Iran was a thriving country with a culture of art, literature, architecture, and of course food.
Iranian leadership is on the record stating: “Death to Israel” and “Death to America.”
Nuclear proliferation by a country that wants death to other countries is not something that I can support.
A big question: Now that Iran’s underground nuclear facilities have been weakened, how long will it take Iran to rebuild?
Is this new conflict about wiping out Iran’s nuclear capabilities or changing the dynamics of their leadership and the various militant groups supported by Iran?
An Iranian regime collapse would be negative vibration for Putin and Russia.
My thoughts and questions are not based on politics or religion. I am only interested in the go-forward with Iran having nuclear capabilities. This video, from thirteen years ago, poses scenarios we should all be thinking about.
Thank you to all who responded to the Question of the Week regarding your childhood thoughts on a career path, and if your career followed those thoughts. Here are a few of your answers:
I think I wanted to be a business leader / CEO. I definitely followed that career path.
Professional baseball playerâŠ..my total lack of talent caused me to go other waysâŠ
As a kid, I just loved playing with my friends/neighbors in small town northeast Georgia. It wasn’t until college that I focused on a career, and it was what my father wanted me to do. However, after three years of pre-med, I concluded I had no interest in being a physician. It is just so gratifying that kids today have so much access to folks in all fields of endeavor, to learn more about various vocations.
I wanted to be a sports journalist. Instead, a followed a path of business management.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: If you and one other person found yourself stuck on a deserted island, what three things would you want to have with you?
Pure Talent. Kool & The Gang was well known for their many hits that covered the genres of funk, soul, and R&B. The band was honored with two Grammy Awards, seven American Music Awards, and was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2024. This song was not one of their super hits, but it could be one of the coolest instrumentals ever, and fifty-one years later is still one of the best. Here is Summer Madness from Kool & The Gang. Pure Talent to say the least.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday!
Get What You Want. The Wind is Bad for the Environment? He Brought Us the World of Funk. Your Career Path. Alcaraz and the Ball Kids.
Quote of the Week: “Never Split the Difference.” – Christopher Voss
Christopher Voss’ negotiation techniques rely on his ability to extract the ‘Black Swans’ and use them to earn what you really want out of the negotiation. Voss is a former FBI hostage negotiator and now runs The Black Swan Group, a leading negotiation training company based in Nevada. From Voss: “Black Swans are small bits of information the other side holds that if uncoveredâwould dramatically change the course of the dialogue and, ultimately, the result of the negotiation.“
The best negotiators incorporate three types of characteristics into their negotiation strategy: Analyzation, Accommodation, and Assertiveness. Voss teaches a strategy so that negotiators learn how to shift their communication style to better fit their counterpart. “Never Split the Difference” reflects Voss’ strategy that successful negotiations give your counterpart what they are seeking with the negotiator exceeding their desired outcome.
This is a great example of negotiating to “Never Split the Difference.”
I do not understand many things, one of those being the world of energy. While I have read about different power sources and have known people who have converted their homes to solar, I am unsure of the why’s and how’s of the future of energy. On a positive note, I read that the International Energy Agency (IEA) expects the investment in clean energy and grids to reach $2.2 trillion this year, and on the other hand U.S. residential solar installer Sunnova has laid off more than half of its workforce. Add in last month’s U.S. House Ways and Means Committee ending the residential energy tax credits and Great Britain announcing plans for an $18 billion nuclear plant… and who really knows the go-forward with energy?
One person who can give us insight is Tracy A., who is an executive with an integrated power generation and supply company. Tracy, do you have any thoughts on the future of solar energy?
Other insight comes from Billy Bob Thornton from the show, Landman. In this scene, his attorney questions why wind power is not clean. Billy Bob Thornton’s answer and explanation is epic (but again, I am unsure of the validity of his explanation, etc.). Warning: this video has expletives galore.
A Few Random Thoughts for the middle of May 2025
What was Elon Musk’s reaction to the government spending $134 million to deploy the National Guard and Marines to Los Angeles last week? Add the $45 million it cost taxpayers for yesterday’s military parade, and everything gets even more puzzling. I am not alluding to politics – just the taxpayer’s spend in light of DOGE’s efforts in the first three months of this year.
I am enjoying the NBA finals. Two good teams playing extremely fast, physical basketball. The same goes for the NHL finals.
Movie of the Week: Try Tom Hanks in the 2016 movie A Hologram for the King.
Can you imagine working with the crisis communication agency who manages the Boeing account? Last week’s plane crash tragedy makes you think back to the movie Unbreakable, where there was one survivor of a train crash that claimed the lives of one hundred thirty-one passengers.
The restaurant industry, specifically the coffee house sector, is complex and still very difficult to navigate. For example, Starbucks’ CEO has told all store managers that they are getting back to basics with a strategy of “Back to Starbucks.” At the same time, I read about the massive chain of coffee houses testing a new protein cold foam. That test does not feel like back to basics to me, but I will shut up as I do not like Starbucks coffee…and what is cold foam? đ
Sly Stone passed away last week at the age of eighty-two. His personal life is nothing to speak of but as a visionary musician, Sly & The Family Stone brought us everything to do with funk. Thank You, Sly Stone.
Thank you to everyone who responded to the Question of the Week regarding the number of state you have visited. These responses show some very well-traveled people:
34 for me â missing mostly the middle of the country â the Dakotas, Nebraska, OK, AR, Idaho, KY, Kansas, Utah and believe it or not MS and LA.
47 States.
Iâve been to 27 states with Alaska being my 28th in August! I think this is the âruleâ but I only count a state if Iâve actually been there overnight or at least outside of the airport!
30 States.
31 states for me âŠabout to be 32 as we visit Idaho late July.
46 States. I am missing South Dakota, New Mexico, Washington, and Alaska.
44.
Iâve been to 27 states. Looking forward to seeing the rest of this beautiful country!
48 States.
I’ve been in all states except the Dakotas, so 48. So many were on business, don’t know if I would call them “visits.”
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: What job did you want as a kid, and did you follow that career path?
Pure Talent. Never mind the two-set deficit and the match point he fought off to win the French Open, Carlos Alcaraz showed us why he is admired around the world. Ranked No. 1 in men’s singles, Alcaraz took his post-match celebration to the hard-working ball girls and ball boys for all to celebrate his five-hour, 5-set win. Carlos Alcaraz is Pure Talent.
Adios, pay if forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday!
Can We Not Just All Get Along? Favorite National Parks. How Many States Have You Visited?
Quote of the Week: “In a competition of love we’ll all share in the victory, no matter who comes first.” – Muhammad Ali
I am unsure of what Muhammad Ali was specifically referring to, but my guess is that the overriding theme of the quote was: Can all of us just get along? A poignant question with the everyday news of conflict, including last Sunday’s terrorist attack in Boulder, Colorado.
I listened to different points of view on one of Chris Cuomo’s shows last week. One viewpoint was from Steve Bannon, a former Presidential advisor who now has a podcast, with the other point of view from retired United States Army General Stanley A. McChrystal, best known for his command of Joint Special Operations Command.
The discussion was centered on conflict. Conflict abroad with continued support of Ukraine to the issues here in the United States, with Islamic extremism discussed ad nauseum. Yes, the discussion did involve my least favorite subject of politics, with my takeaway from the twenty-minute watch being the thread of America: divisionism and bi-partisanship.
Muhammad Ali’s quote is never more relevant than right now. The Middle East, Russia’s war with Ukraine, and the domestic terrorism we have endured seems overbearing. No one really knows the outcome of these conflicts and issues, but the division of race, religion, and creed with people across the world has never been far more apart. Does anyone have any answers or do we concede that this is just the way of today’s world? l guess someone needs to replicate Jack Nicholson’s plea in the movie Mars Attacks? Your viewpoint is welcomed.
Thank you to all who answered the Question of the Week: What is your favorite U.S. National Park, and why?
My park is âFaithfulâ (Yellowstone National Park) – the ultimate example of âthe outdoorsâ. Wildlife, fishing, natural wonders – the panoramic views. You canât leave there unchanged and aware that something bigger than ourselves is out there!
Acadia, peaceful Maine..
Glacier National ParkâŠ..most astounding mountain and site views of any of the national parks â including Grand Canyon, Grand Tetons, and Yellowstone. Going to the Sun Road is simply breathtaking and there are rental rides allowing full appreciation.
Grand Canyon or Glacier National Park- breathtaking views, hikes and wildlife. Got to experience both with family which makes it even more special!
Being a âbeachâ person, Iâve always liked Cape Hatteras National Seashore, which includes Pea Island National Wildlife Refuge. Also Cape Canaveral National Seashore. Both have areas of unspoiled beach where you can walk for long stretches and see next to no one. No hotels, condominiums, or miniature golf courses!
My favorite park is Archâs in Utah not -one straight line in the whole park.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: How many states have you visited? For some, it may be easier to count the number of states not yet visited. Note: according to Ipsos Public Affairs, the average number of states visited is between twelve and 13.
A few observations for June 8, 2025
The travel restrictions banning travel to the United States from twelve countries takes effect tomorrow. There is exemption for athletes who will travel to the U.S. for the 2026 World Cup and the 2028 Summer Olympics. What about the fans from those twelve countries?
I am never a naysayer to modern technology, but does anyone else foresee some interesting issues with home and office drone deliveries? Customers who shop at Walmart stores in Atlanta, Charlotte, Houston, Orlando, and Tampa can request a drone to deliver their online shopping orders. The same goes with food orders from DoorDash…as if the FAA does not already have enough issues.
Regardless of the new feud between Elon Musk and President Trump, how much highly sensitive data is Musk rooting around? Let us hope that Musk was properly vetted. This question relates to national security, not politics.
You can score one point in an NFL game. Serious.
Last Friday, June 6, was the 81st anniversary of D-Day. We all should honor the sacrifice of those who stormed the beaches of France. We owe them our deepest gratitude and everlasting respect.
We are +- ten weeks from college football. đ
Due to the May jobs report and/or President Trump’s trade talks with China stocks are off to a strong June start. Surprising considering how the tariffs have consumed the minds of investors over the last ninety days.
Did you ever go to a greyhound track to bet on greyhound racing? At one time there were seventy greyhound tracks across the United States. Today, due to increased awareness of animal welfare, only two tracks remain, both in West Virginia. I remember the days my brother would sneak me into Flagler Dog Track in Miami, Florida. The same goes with jai alai frontons. Only two remain open in the United States, both in south Florida. Jai Alai was something else to watch live as every point is fast and dangerous with the rock-hard ball traveling up to speeds of 150 miles per hour.
Pure Talent. This week’s Pure Talent is not an athlete nor musician. This week, the designation goes to all Allied forces who on June 6, 1944, launched Operation Overlord and began the fight to liberate the areas of northwest Europe from German occupation. As this video explains, D-Day did not end World War II. What Operation Overlord did do was provide the allies the ability to advance into Germany. The rest, with no pun intended, is history. This short video about sums up the D-Day troop buildup and the how this land, sea, and air operation was planned. Those Allied forces were Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday.
Reaching Your Goals. China is Full of Them. Hoochie Koo. Nuke the Moon? His Legacy or a Farce? Backstabbers.
Quote of the Week: “I do not think that there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature.” – John D. Rockefeller
I think the word perseverance is often misunderstood. While the word itself is aligned with not giving up and maintaining a purpose, many unfortunately tie the word perseverance to being stubborn or unwilling to change. There are many words associated with perseverance including determination, achievement, and persistence, but to me it has always been about finding your own path, envisioning success, and overcoming barriers that are part and parcel of everyday life. To Rockefeller’s point, …“perseverance overcomes almost everything…” This short video shows us examples of perseverance.
In previous posts I have commented on my concerns with electric vehicles (EV). Some of my concerns relate to the power grid thresholds, the availability of recharging stations, range per charge, and the amount of time needed to recharge your car’s battery. In the United States, automobile manufacturers have revisited their forecasts and plans for EV output, turning some of their production lines from all EV to hybrid.
The EV dilemma is no different outside of the United States, especially in China. China has the most EV makers of any nation globally (fifty) but only three Chinese EV makers are currently profitable. Three out of 50 is alarming with price competition, slowly decreasing demand, and expensive marketing costs putting a damper on many EV makers’ profitability. The tariffs imposed by the United States certainly are not helping matters, with Chinese EV makers focusing on Europe and Australia to ramp up sales.
Fifty EV makers in China, with the financial hurdles they face, are not sustainable. It is inevitable that there will be a good bit of merger and acquisition with these fifty Chinese EV makers. From a consumer standpoint, this may raise EV prices, but as reported by Nikkei Asia: “Aprilâs top-selling all-electric vehicle in China was the Star Wish sedan from Geelyâs Galaxy EV brand. A base Star Wish has a range of about 192 miles and is priced at $9,500. Comparatively, Teslaâs Model 3 starts at about $32,688 in China.“ I wonder how many people in China will pay 3x for a Tesla over a Star Wish EV?
The go-forward with auto makers is in flux. While Toyota reports a newfound strategy with EV and Hybrid manufacturing, General Motors has abandoned a plan to pump $300 million into electric-vehicle motor production at its upstate New York plant and will now invest $888 million to make the latest V-8 engines. There is no doubt that many changes are happening with worldwide automobile manufacturing.
No auto-tune, no lip-syncing, just great music. Along with long hair and interesting attire, Rick Derringer was a guitarist, vocalist, writer and producer. Best known as part of the Edgar Winter Group on the Frankenstein tour, Derringer also played a role in producing Steely Dan, Meatloaf, and Cyndy Lauper. I best remember him for his 1970’s solo hit, Rock and Roll Hootchie Koo. Rick Derringer passed away last week at the age of seventy-seven.
This video is from the awesome show The Midnight Special, a weekly show that introduced many of us to all types of music. I can still hear my father pounding on our bedroom door telling us to turn down the volume. đ
There has been a lot said about NASA and the Apollo Space Program. The Apollo program began in the 1960s and is best known for Apollo 11’s moon landing in July of 1969. That crew of Neil Armstrong, Buzz Aldrin, and Michael Collins landed on the moon’s Sea of Tranquility, and we all know that Armstrong was the first to step onto the moon’s surface with his famous declaration: “Thatâs one small step for a man, one giant leap for mankind.”
While we do know about the ups and downs of the Apollo Space Program, I doubt that many of us were aware of the Project A119 plan. Developed by the U.S. Air Force, this top-secret project was conceived during the Cold War to show American technological superiority over the Soviet Union. The mission: to detonate a W25 nuclear warhead on the moon’s surface. Say what?
Thankfully, the A119 plan was canceled for all the right reasons. This video takes us through this strange but true initiative.
Thank you everyone for chiming in with your answer to last week’s Question of the Week: What is Vladimir Putin’s desired outcome continuing the war with Ukraine?
I guess for Putin, Russiaâs greatest threat is bordering a free, democratic, capitalist Ukraine whose citizens speak Russian language.
World domination: He wants to rule all and has the ego that is just as big.
To stay in power.
Yet another provocative question! I believe that only the Almighty and old Vladimir himself know what his actual endgame is. That said, it is mental masturbation to bring rational thought to the table to scrutinize this man’s plan. He was an early hero to the Russian people and their economy, a savior like Hitler to the downtrodden Germans after WWI. He then very adroitly consolidated power around him, silencing/killing outspoken opponents. The world sees him as unhinged, but oh wait! He has an arsenal of nuclear weapons and is perceived as demented enough to unleash them on a whim. He worships the old USSR, Mother Russia, and longs to return it to its superpower glory. And that all starts with regaining control of that darling, the most prominent of the former Soviet Union, Ukraine. He dares the rest of the world to screw with him. And he has won so far–the EU could wipe out Moscow in short order but legitimately fear this maniac unleashing hell on them. Can anyone identify any deterrent that has slowed him? Negatory.
Putin, in his deranged mind, is creating a legacy. He sees Ukraine as a land grab and a deterrent to keeping NATO away from his backyard. Sad, but true.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: What is your favorite U.S. National Park and why? Note: I have two: Yosemite and Acadia. Both great for hiking and exploring.
Pure Talent. No one likes backstabbers but the word was never explained better than by the O’Jays. It is too bad that our youngsters never had the opportunity to watch Soul Train in the 1970s. The amount of talent the show presented was amazing, and this video gives the O’Jays with their hit song “Backstabbers.” William Powell and the O’Jays were Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday.
Stop Being So Serious. A Take on UNC. Memorial Day. Putin’s Agenda. 331 Lines.
Quote of the Week:“There’s great value in being able to step back and laugh at yourself, at life, and at attitudes. Laughter helps you put everything into perspective.” – Jim Henson
Jim Henson was all about laughter. As the creator of the Muppets, Henson generated laughter from all of us no matter our age. There is a lot to be said about laughter, whether you are laughing at yourself or laughing with others. It is so fun and enjoyable to laugh hard – even when everyone is laughing at you.
The benefits of laughter are supported by a Mayo Clinic study. In summary:
“A good laugh has great short-term effects. When you start to laugh, it doesn’t just lighten your load mentally, it actually induces physical changes in your body.
Stimulate many organs. Laughter enhances your intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins that are released by your brain. Activate and relieve your stress response. A rollicking laugh fires up and then cools down your stress response, and it can increase and then decrease your heart rate and blood pressure. The result? A good, relaxed feeling. Soothe tension. Laughter can also stimulate circulation and aid muscle relaxation, both of which can help reduce some of the physical symptoms of stress.“
Maybe we should all laugh more!
Two weeks ago, I asked if anyone really cares what Bill Belichick does with his personal life as he takes the reigns of the University of North Carolina (UNC) football program. My comment provoked a pointed response from my long-time friend K.O. Any guess what university K.O. supports in the Raleigh-Durham area? đ Another long-time friend was just named the Athletic Director at a major university in the Big Ten Conference. Maybe J.S. can give his take on this interesting debacle at UNC?
Iâm catching up on last weekâs blog, so chiming in late on the Bill Belichick/Jordan Hudson fiasco. I almost want to say, âdonât get me startedâ. The real question is how long UNC will allow this circus to continue before deciding the distraction and embarrassment is too much. The hiring of Belichick was driven by an overzealous Board of Governors political appointee who disregarded the usual hiring protocol, including bypassing the university administration. It is another example of UNC arrogance and bravado run amuck. Itâs the same attitude behind the athletic department consistently thumbing their noses at the NCAA (aka worst academic scandal in NCAA history) and the NCAA giving them a âwink and a nodâ. But, Iâm not biased. đ
For a many reasons, tomorrow is the most important holiday in the United States. Memorial Day is observed on the last Monday of May and was formerly known as Decoration Day. Memorial Day commemorates all who have died in military service for the United States. Tomorrow takes on additional significance with those around the world who have fallen in the wars in Ukraine, the Middle East, and other parts of the world where conflict rages on. Please fly your flag to honor our fallen veterans.
On a much lighter but sad note, we lost an iconic character actor last week. We all new him as Norm on the show Cheers that ran from 1982 to 1993, with his unquenchable thirst for beer and more importantly for his bar stool. RIP George Wendt.
Question of the Week: Thank you to all who answered last week’s Question of the Week: If you could live anywhere in the world, with money and family not being a factor, where would it be, and why?
Italian coast looking over the Mediterranean Sea ⊠beauty, food & climate.
Hi Gary, hands down regardless of cost I would choose the Nicoya Peninsula Costa Rica, it is a blue zone. The quality of life, longevity, happiness are the way of life with respect to nature.
Amelia Island -Easy drive, no hurricanes in 125 years…no state taxâŠgreat beach.
I suppose it would be a beach front house in Nantucket overlooking the Atlantic on a large piece of land. However, there also is a part of Nantucket that is sinking into the Atlantic. Of course, I would have to also have a penthouse in downtown St Pete for the winter.
Of the places I have visited- without a doubt Florence, Italy. The history, culture, food and overall atmosphere including the people has always been my #1.
TheAmalfi Coast for the weather, food, and beauty.
London. History, cosmopolitan restaurants, arts, trains to Europe.
WOW! Great question. My first thought would be the Monterrey peninsula or Napa/Sonoma counties. Having just gotten back from a Venice to Barcelona cruise, the Dalmatian/Adriatic coast is a little beyond enticing. But after 28 trips to Italy, Tuscany is just incomparable. I need therapyâŠâŠ.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: What is Vladimir Putin’s desired outcome continuing the war with Ukraine?
Thoughts for Memorial Day Weekend 2025
Why did White House officials not disclose President Joe Biden’s healthcare issues? How and why did the prostate cancer go undetected?
The European soccer (football) landscape is sometimes difficult to understand but it all breaks down to competitions involving either clubs or countries. One of the club competitions that happens annually in concert with European league play is the Euro League, which is a stepsister competition to the massive Champions League, the world’s most lucrative club competition. In the crazy world of sports, the Euro League final was played last Wednesday between two teams who stand 16th and 17th in England’s Premier League. The 17th place team, Tottenham, was victorious in the final, which gives them an automatic place in the Champions League competition. Yes, a team in 17th place in the Premier League qualified for the Champions League competition starting in August…and more importantly, with all revenue streams combined, should provide Tottenham a $130 million revenue bump. Just a bit wacky but a massive windfall for this famous English club. Note: the governing body of soccer in Europe is UEFA. UEFA will reportedly reap $3.6 billion from networks across the globe for the rights to the 2025/26 Champions League competition.
Keep your pennies and give them to your children and grandchildren as they eventually will be a collector’s item. The Treasury says that production of the penny will end in 2026.
Epic Universe Orlando opened last Thursday. The park features five themed ‘worlds’ and cost $7 billion to build. Another theme park for the Orlando area and another ride I have no interest in experiencing! đ
Pure Talent.Lose Yourself is a song by American rapper Eminem from the soundtrack of the 2002 film 8 Mile. At the 75th Academy Awards, Eminem won Best Original Song for Lose Yourself, making him the first rapper ever to receive an Oscar in that category. Someone who is very talented and had a good bit of time on their hands composed this version of Lose Yourself using lines from over three hundred movies. I have no idea how this was done but there is no doubt that this comes from someone with Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday.
Cousteau and Serenity. It is Only a Gorilla. The Ramifications of Your Decisions. Really, Where Would You Go? Tequila!!
Quote of the Week: “The sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of wonder forever.”
Jacques Cousteau understood the virtues of the sea. Cousteau was a French naval officer who then became world-renowned for his oceanography and filmmaking. He gave us our first glimpses of underwater exploration with a career bar none. I agree with Cousteau’s quote as being on the coast and on the water does cast a spell. The shores and the seas across the world differ in many ways but always bring some peace and a smile.
This beautiful song, Porcelain, by the artist Moby, gives us photography used in the movie “The Beach.” Is anyone up for a trip to Thailand?
Random Thoughts for Mid-May 2025
I am convinced that Vladimir Putin has NO intention of ending the Russia-Ukraine war. Someone please prove me wrong.
The availability of Narcan (Naloxone) must be a big contributing factor to opioid deaths dropping by 27% year-over- year. Narcan is a life-saving opioid overdose reversal medication now available over the counter.
I am not sure of the average age of people who will take in Beyonce on her Cowboy Carter Tour, but I do know that at Atlanta’s Mercedes-Benz Stadium, the lowest priced ticket, for the 3rd level of that beautiful stadium, is $338.00. Amazing since the majority of Americans’ optimism about the economy is at a near-record low.
Cox and Charter Communications joining forces. It was inevitable as competition from cellphone carriers who use 5G technology to provide internet speeds that are competitive with fixed cable lines…at lower prices. ‘Cutting the cord’ by consumers continues a high levels.
One gorilla versus one hundred humans in a fight with no weapons or tools. Whoever would win this fight is all over the internet and has been for ten weeks. Could one hundred unarmed humans take down a gorilla? I know, no one cares but….
Thank you to all who answered last week’s Question of the Week: “How do you stop yourself from doing something to make yourself feel better, if it just ends up making yourself feel worse?” The reader who submitted the question gave these examples: impulse shopping, an extra glass of wine, a midnight snack, etc. Your answers and thoughts are appreciated.
I go for a walk or I clean. Either takes my mind off whatever is troubling me đ
This is a super question. If I had the answer, I would be a much better person. The long-term gain must outweigh the weaknesses pain. So, my only advice is truly committing and trying earnestly.
“Feeling good is 90% mental and the other half physical,” as the great Yogi Berra would say. If you have to do something like shopping, drinking, watching CNN, etc. to feel better, group therapy would probably be the better resolution. Selah.
I try to think through the ramifications of my actions before I take action. That, of course, is easier said than done.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: If you could live anywhere in the world, with money and family not being a factor, where would it be, and why?
Pure Talent. Maybe the greatest performance ever on America’s Got Talent. The amount of effort and emotion this young man puts into the song Tequila is amazing. đ The mustache, the posture, the tie, the haircut, and yes, his amazing attitude makes this guy Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday!
Age is Just a Number. What Were the Odds? Answers Please. The Sneak Pass Maneuver.
Quote of the Week: Let’s face it, the human body is like a condominium apartment. The thing that keeps you really enjoying it is the maintenance. There’s a tremendous amount of daily, weekly, monthly and yearly work that has to be done. From showering to open heart surgery, we’re always doing something to ourselves. If your body was a used car, you wouldn’t buy it. – Jerry Seinfeld
Whether you agree or disagree with Jerry Seinfeld depends on correlating our bodies to a used car. While cars lose twenty percent of their value in the first year of ownership and retain just 40% of their original value after five years, do we not become more valuable as we grow older? One of many “getting old” jokes I like: Someone told me they liked my alligator shoes. I was barefoot.
This take from Susan Rice has some truth to it…and her advice may resonate with many of us:
I Have Some Questions
When is the last time that you were in a Burger King?
Why did Disney pick Abu Dhabi for its next park? The Middle East seems to be a hot destination for tourists led by Saudi Arabia’s Qiddiya City, a new city being built with a mix of entertainment, attractions, sports complexes, and residential neighborhoods.
Will any A-list celebrities and politicians will be subpoenaed to testify in the Sean “Diddy” Combs criminal trial?
Have you seen the movie Conclave? It is well done and as always, Ralph Fiennes and Stanley Tucci are fantastic.
The Persian Gulf being renamed The Arabian Gulf. Do we really care what we call the body of water separating Iran and Saudi Arabia?
Will last Thursday’s new trade deal with the United Kingdom be the first of many?
Weeks later, why is the media is still all over the Bill Belichick/Jordan Hudson romance? Yes, I typed romance.
Will Bitcoin and other cryptos stay above $100,000? Have you been asked to explain cryptocurrency? Is cryptocurrency a digital currency that could replace normal monetary systems?
In a post last month, I discussed how the new Pope is elected and offered up the question if an American had any chance of being selected: “Is there a chance that the next Pope will be an American? Most pundits point out that for the first time in history, fewer than half of those given a vote will be European. The voting process is known as the Conclave with one hundred thirty-three cardinals, all of whom must be under the age of eighty, submitting their vote. The voting process continues until a candidate receives two-thirds of the vote.“
Last Thursday, one hundred thirty-three cardinals, after a few voting rounds did not yield a two-thirds majority, finally decided on an American-born Pope. As always, the Pope uses a name from the past that best aligns with their sacred work of leading 1.4 billion followers of the Roman Catholic Church. Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost, born in Chicago, is now Pope Leo XIV. He speaks English, Spanish, and Italian, is a Chicago White Sox fan, and plays tennis on a regular basis. Let us hope that Pope Leo XIV becomes a strong voice for peace, social justice, and human dignity.
Note: for some of my friends who think Hard Rock Bet is the best app ever…Cardinal Prevost was listed as a 0.6% chance of being named the new Pope by various betting sites. Just saying.
Today is Mother’s Day. Yes, many of us live away from our mom, have had a contentious relationship with her, or our mom has passed on. With that said, whether your mom is still with us or not, don’t miss the opportunity to show your respect and appreciation for every mom. Mother’s Day became an official U.S. holiday in 1914 when President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the second Sunday in May as a day of “public expression of our love and reverence for the mothers of our country.” Not all of us can gather to celebrate Mother’s Day, but at the very least, no matter the situation, call your mom and show your respect and appreciation. Just do it.
Question of the Week. Thank you to all who provided your answers and one interesting recipe. The question: With yesterday’s Kentucky Derby in the books and thousands of mint juleps consumed, as summer quickly approaches What is Your Favorite Summer Cocktail? Will you share your drink recipe with all of us?
My favorite summer drink forever has been Tanqueray and Schwepps tonic water. Then about three years ago, my A1c was elevated, and I started looking more carefully at sugar intake. Tonic water had more sugar than you should consume in a frickinâ day. Johnny Walker Black and two ice cubes to the rescue!
Not big on summer cocktails ⊠cold Corona with slice of lime is all I need!
Summer cocktail means Gin & Tonic. Here’s my fave summer cocktail served up in Atlanta at the Four Seasons Midtown lounge known as Bar Margot. it’s your kind of place. (Reminds me of The Palm, but they have a DJ).
This signature drink is the “Gin Margot”: Here’s how to make it:
Ingredients: 2 oz Papa Salt Gin 4 oz soda water Orange twist for garnish Crack of black pepper for garnish
Instructions: Fill a glass with ice. Pour the gin over the ice. Top with soda water. Garnish with an orange twist and a crack of black pepper.
Variations:
CAPI Pink Grapefruit Soda – Using this soda as a mixer, which adds a touch of sweetness and a pink hue to the drink.
Rosemary Salt Rim – Rimming the glass with a rosemary salt mixture (blended rosemary and sea salt) for a more complex flavor profile.
An Arnold Palmer made this way: unsweetened tea, lemonade, with most of it being tea. Add two ounces of your favorite bourbon and pour over a tall glass with ice.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: “How do you stop yourself from doing something to make yourself feel better, if it just ends up making yourself feel worse?”The reader who submitted the question gave these examples: impulse shopping, an extra glass of wine, a midnight snack, etc. Your answers and thoughts are appreciated.
Pure Talent. I have no excuses, but I have not been to an air show featuring the Blue Angels for many years. This video shows us the ‘sneak pass’ maneuver which demonstrates how quickly these planes can be right on top of their target without knowing they are coming. This maneuver is performed at just below the speed of sound (768 mph) from an altitude as low as fifty feet. No one can hear the jet’s engines until the jet moves past you. The Blue Angels are Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday Mother’s Day!
The Soundtrack of our Lives. The Bedroom Partner? Your Favorite Summer Cocktail. Mint Juleps. A Young Virtuoso.
Quote of the Week: “Music is the soundtrack of our lives. “ – Dick Clark
I agree with Dick Clark’s quote. Music really is a long soundtrack that aligns with our lives. There is music that I listen to today that instantly takes me back to the past, with vivid memories of the exact place I was when I heard the song. There are songs that remind me of my high school days (Bachman Turner Overdrive’s Takin’ Care of Business), my college days (Donna Summer’s Bad Girls) and every period of time up to today. Some of the music played by the bands I enjoyed have been recognized at one time or another with election to the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame being the benchmark of honor.
Every year, whether you agree with the nominees or not, musicians and bands are nominated to the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. The recently announced 2025 inductees are Bad Company, Thom Bell, Chubby Checker, Joe Cocker, Nicky Hopkins, Carol Kaye, Cyndi Lauper, Outkast, Salt-N-Pepa, Soundgarden, Lenny Waronker, The White Stripes, and Warren Zevon. Unfortunately for me, a few of my favorites did not make this year’s list including Billy Idol and The Black Crowes. I am not sure how these two could be left off the nomination list but in years past there have been many great acts who did not make the nominee’s list.
The song Fell On Black Days, with the late lead singer Chris Cornell, helped put the band Soundgarden at the top of the charts in 1994. The strong bass groove, clean guitar, and pounding drums – for me, one of the best alternative songs ever written, and vocals by the outstanding Chris Cornell.
Alternative romance. Solo weddings. Parties of one. Single karaoke. This is not a random hyperbole but real life happenings in Tokyo and other major cities that garner most of a country’s population. The cause and effect are stimulated by artificial intelligence (AI) – a topic I mentioned in JustMyTake over a year ago:
Previous posts have discussed artificial intelligence (AI) and the dire need for regulation. To me, the upside of AI is the massive quantity of information and processing speed AI offers, especially in the fields of healthcare, science, and education. Unfortunately, the threats posed by AI are not fully understood and sometimes underestimated by scientists, politicians, and the media. If you benchmark AI as a robust optimization system, can AI subsequently generate unintended consequences in the forms of miscommunication and manipulation? How crucial for those continuing to develop AI is a responsible and transparent approach, considering not only the benefits but also the potential risks and ethical implications? If many people cannot tell when they are being manipulated by social media, what chance do we have with the continued development of AI?
The flip side is the ability of AI to be used in the wrong way. Here is one example: a North Carolina-based technology company recently evaluated if their AI software was able to generate thousands of molecules that could be used as chemical weapons – in just a few hours. They deemed the test a success and obviously stopped the research experiment before any of these molecules could be fully developed.
Do not get me wrong, I am a proponent of technology and the use of AI. I am only restating that the world needs to get its arms around the use and development of AI to ensure there is regulation as it relates to nuclear, biological, and chemical protection. I am open-minded and have adapted to the ever-changing landscape of technology. I have often said that at this point in my life, nothing really surprises me.
That thought changed a bit Sunday evening as I watched a segment of 60 Minutes. The segment covered the ever-decreasing birthrate and population of Japan, the systemic issues with people never marrying, and the socio-economic issues facing the Japanese workforce. At the 6:50 mark of the video below even I was surprised. Let’s just say that robots making their way into the bedroom did not sit well with me. Watch from the 6:50 mark and tell me your thoughts. No, and no is my thought.
Regarding romance, I find it mind-boggling that America is consumed with the Bill Belichick saga. Why does anyone care who this football coach, at the age of 73, spends time with? Yes, there is a big age gap between Belichick and his girlfriend. C’mon, that age gap is only forty-nine years. đ
Last week’s Question of the Week offered up a few answers to a difficult question. Thank you to all who provided your answers.
If your child were on a campus and an incident similar to the one at FSU occurred, what and how would you respond to your child? What words would or could you use to ensure your son or daughter could carry on without issues?
I think we have become a much softer society and that coddling has happened too often. We live in a tumultuous world and as much as Iâd like to believe there isnât evil or bad out there…there is. I think canceling classes or postponing exams, etc. prevents children/students from learning to cope with messed up life events.
Hey Gary, thanks for being both interesting and provocative. On this question I donât have an answer. My opinion is we collectively as a society have become so tribal and combative that our government has become incapable of depoliticizing something as tragic as school mass shootings. That in turn has made it impossible to deal with mental health, social media and gun issues through legislation. We canât fully protect our young people, nor ourselves. So, if given the choice between hiding in our homes or living life to the fullest, Iâd choose the latter for my kids. And every day Iâd be thankful for their health, safety and happiness.
It doesn’t have to be on a college campus, it could happen to any of us anywhere. The shooter chose the destination to get attention by a group he or she was harmed by and the shooter suffers from a brain disease which means they have no logic.
I would tell my children to carry on and to fight for more nationwide care for people with mental health disease and limits on the types of guns people can own. Mental health is an extreme health and safety crisis and in America weapons of war are everywhere.
In other democratic countries, people can have firearms but not weapons of war. Why do hunters and homeowners need semi automatic weapons? The weapons of war of today, are not the right to bear “arms” of the Constitution.
The help for people living with mental health disease, also brain disease is not helpful. This is not heart disease or cancer, their brains have a disease and they have no logic, they are not bad people, they are not getting the proper health care that people with other diseases are getting. So when people say “it is not the gun, it is the person” They are correct, it is not a gun, it is a weapon of war used by a person whose brain has a disease.
I hope I never have to have that conversation. Just let them know I love them.
You have a very difficult question today.. I am not sure how I can talk to my kids if something like that happens⊠It is pure fucking insanity that we allow so many guns in the streets and fuck the saying “guns don’t kill people, people kill people!” I am sorry, this is so stupid⊠people kill people and guns kill people but people without guns can’t kill so many. What people don’t know (maybe?) is that seeing someone being shot dead in front of you is an insanely traumatic experience even when you are the shooterâŠ.
Brother I honestly can’t figure out what to say to my kids if something like that happens other than supporting them and showering them with love.
Difficult question for a Sunday đ
This is a grief condition where remembrance, talking about it, and grief consulting finds humbleness and peace. For Anna & I we tried to protect themâŠit was the wrong moveâŠthey seek their own protection in their own way knowing you are there grieving too. Love can winâŠ.
Welcome to the crazy worldâŠdo / act what is rightâŠ
Good question. Wow. My affinity with our 2A rights, and my love for north Florida (Tallahassee in particular) might skew my opinion. If one of my daughters, both âfirearms awareâ had been at this incident, Iâd like to think they would have stepped in to stop the shooter. I gotta think on this some more.
I thought about that when you originally asked. Truthfully, I am covered with uncertainty. Our next door neighbor in VA had a daughter whose dorm room was struck multiple times the morning the VA Tech shooter went wild years ago. My thoughts have always been to trust in the Lord and try to avoid stupid situationsâDo not place yourself in potential dangerous situations period. There are some real evil folks in the world, but as the Latin slogan says: Illegitimi non carborundumâdonât let the bastards get you down. Live your life, day to day. Tomorrow will have its own issues. Fear sucks.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: With yesterday’s Kentucky Derby in the books and thousands of mint juleps consumed, as summer quickly approaches What is Your Favorite Summer Cocktail? Will your share your drink recipe with all of us?
Regarding the Kentucky Derby, yesterday was the 151st edition of the Run for the Roses. Mint juleps, ornate hat-wearing, and the big party that always takes place in the track’s infield, with Sovereignty outdueling 3-1 favorite Journalism to earn the garland of red roses.
Every horse in yesterday’s Derby was a descendant of Secretariat. Known as Big Red, Secretariat was an American thoroughbred racehorse who was the ninth winner of the 1973 American Triple Crown, setting and still holding the fastest time record in all three of its constituent races (The Kentucky Derby, The Preakness, and The Belmont). He is widely regarded as one of the greatest racehorses of all time.
Some of the traditions of the Kentucky Derby:
The mint julep is the official beverage and has been since 1939.
Like the Masters green jacket, the Garland of Roses presented to the winning horse is the most coveted possession in all of horse racing.
While the mint julep is the official beverage of the Kentucky Derby, the Kentucky Hot Browns is the official food of the race. The sandwich, created in 1920 by The Brown Hotel, is white bread, turkey, tomato, bacon, and creamy mornay sauce. The second traditional sandwich is the Benedictine Sandwich made of cucumber, green onion, cream cheese, dill, and mayonnaise, again placed between slices of white bread.
The famous hats and distinct headwear come from the Derby’s earliest days when full morning dress was required by all attendees, which included proper headwear for women.
Cash is the only way you can place a bet at Churchill Downs as Kentucky laws prohibit the use of credit cards to place a bet.
The “Walkover” is the quarter-mile walk before the Kentucky Derby involving the horses, their trainers, and their owners.
Let us hope that these traditions, some from 1920, continue as part of “The Most Exciting Two Minutes in Sports.”
Pure Talent. Based on today’s Quote of the Week, I could have highlighted a musical talent from Dick Clark’s American Bandstand show. Instead I selected Sasha, a ten-year-old virtuoso who shows us tremendous joy playing live in front of dozens of amazed spectators. Sasha is Pure Talent!
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday!
Poetry and Music. It is the Last Sunday of April. De Niro, Norton, & Brando. Answers Please. Grandfather Rules.
Quote of the Week: “If I had my life to live over again, I would have made a rule to read some poetry and listen to some music at least once every week.” – Charles Darwin
An interesting quote from someone who spent most of his life immersed in the world of science, specifically biology. Charles Darwin gave the world an insight into the origin and diversity of life on Earth, known best for his Theory of Evolution by Natural Selection. He based his widely accepted (but controversial with the Church) theory that individual organisms with the characteristics best suited to their environment are more likely to survive and reproduce. Darwin’s theory summed up in one sentence: “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.”
I have not done a deep dive into Darwin’s life but I am assuming Darwin’s quote refers to some level of life balance. I also assume that Darwin spent the majority of his time expanding his knowledge and thoughts about evolution, a subject matter that is not always understood due to religious beliefs and inadequate scientific evidence.
The term ‘life balance’ is discussed by many, practiced by few. Mental health professionals have expressed their belief that life balance is crucial for fostering relationships, managing stress, promoting both physical and mental health, and in general good for our overall well-being. All of us have witnessed friends, family, and associates whose lack of balance with their personal and professional lives led to them going through burnout, emotional exhaustion, and poor job performance.
Life balance is a delicate balancing act, with some handling that balance well, and some not so much. Did Charles Darwin’s extensive research which led to his Theory of Evolution take a toll on him? His quote tells us yes.
For 2025 my focus has been on ‘BALANCE’ – trying every day to find a good level of balance with everything I do. Whether you like Jeff Bezos or not, his take on finding balance and energy is spot on.
Things I Think for the Last Sunday of April
Is there a correlation with Elon Musk spending most of his time working on DOGE and Telsa’s poor quarterly and year-over-year financial performance? A 71% drop in profit from the same period last year is alarming. Or, did Tesla sales tank as the brand has become a symbol of the current Administration? Or are consumers more diligent with their electric vehicle (EV) purchase due to EV offerings from Ford, Rivian, and other EV manufacturers? Note: If you have a few minutes, Google Jeff Bezos’ new EV offering.
Regarding Elon Musk and the Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE), there is no doubt that the DOGE initiatives and directives have cut federal spending, but does anyone know if DOGE has significantly reduced the national debt? From Federal Reserve Chair Jerome Powell: “…reducing domestic discretionary spending will not solve America’s growing national debt problem.”
Is there a chance that the next Pope will be an American? Most pundits point out that for the first time in history, fewer than half of those given a vote will be European. The voting process is known as the Conclave with one hundred twenty cardinals, all of whom must be under the age of eighty, submitting their vote. The voting process continues until a candidate receives two-thirds of the vote. Could the new Pope come from Asia or Africa?
Synthetic dyes used in food we eat could be banned. My thoughts for all of us: Over our lifetime, how many M&Ms, Lucky Charms, icing on cakes, Cheetos, Skittles, and Doritos have we consumed? Now I know why I am not 6′-2″ tall. đ
Regarding the Question of the Week two weeks ago asking about Pete Hegseth and the Signal messages, many of you responded that due to “no harm, no foul”, Hegseth should keep his job as the Secretary of Defense. The issue bubbled up again last week due to a second Signal message sent to his wife, brother, and personal attorney. Does this second incident change anyone’s thoughts with Hegseth keeping his job?
Factoid of the Week: Twenty billion. That is the number of videos uploaded to YouTube since the streaming platform began twenty years ago. Forbes reports that over one billion hours of YouTube content are watched each day.
It is not a ‘must-watch’ but I did catch Robert De Niro in a movie he made twenty-four years ago. I had never seen “The Score” but once I noticed De Niro’s supporting cast, I carved out the two hours to watch the intriguing Marlon Brando, a fantastic Edward Norton, and the always beautiful Angela Bassett. A good story with De Niro playing an aging thief who specializes in safe cracking. Frank Oz is the director, and he once again does a great job with this 2001 movie. The dynamic between De Niro and Norton is worth the watch.
This scene from The Score, when De Niro and Norton first meet, sets the tone for the entire movie.
Question of the Week: Last week’s question was in regards to your favorite Easter Sunday tradition. Here is how some of you answered:
Favorite Easter memory- my entire family, aunts, uncles, cousins, neighbors and family âstraysâ would all gather the day before and decorate Easter eggs. The adult men would hide them late at night and Then after church Easter Sunday would be a huge celebration and egg hunt!
My favorite memories of Easter: In Lebanon we donât do egg hunt but we compete cracking other kids eggs. If their egg cracks, I take it.
It was so much fun and the cheating by creating wooden eggs or fortified eggs with female nails polish was so much fun and if you get caught you are banned for life. We had a blast.
Easter memory: Grateful to attend the Cathedral in Nashville, TN with my wife, sons, and daughter-in-law one year after my son and daughters-in-lawâs wedding there. Same priest and cantor. Brought back great memory in this most beautiful church.
Here is this week’s Question of the Week:
The recent mass shooting and tragedy that occurred at Florida State University (FSU) has many parents wondering how they would handle this type of incident with their children. The question: If your child were on a campus and an incident similar to the one at FSU occurred, what and how would you respond to your child? What words would or could you use to ensure your son or daughter could carry on without issues? Your answer is appreciated.
Pure Talent. I like this video for many reasons: 1) Obviously, the talent and skills from both the grandfather and grandson are fantastic: 2) The grandfather playing with and passing on his gift to his grandson. 3) The smiles and joy from both are something special. Ten-year-old Olly and his grandfather are definitely Pure Talent.
Adios, pay it forward, be safe, and have a Sunday Funday!
