Don’t Hand Them The Keys. Pamplona. Why Does it Matter? The Airplane Ride.
Quote of the Week: “People can’t drive you crazy if you don’t give them the keys.” —Mike Bechtle
If your daughter or son is not ready to drive the car on their own, do you hand them the keys? If your peer is unprepared to present to an important client, do you allow them to make that presentation? If you have a friend or friends who drive you crazy, do you continue “to give them the keys” to the relationship? It seems like an easy proposition to prevent people from driving you crazy, but in many instances the word enablement comes into play.
How often have you told yourself that you were not going to let someone ‘get under your skin’ or drive you crazy with their incessant talking, complaining, or glass half-full attitude? What I have often found is instead of shutting down ‘the noise’ from someone, I have enabled someone to ‘drive me crazy.’ There is always that fine line between lending your ear and being patient with someone, but when is enough, enough? “Not giving them the keys” is easier said than done. Does anyone have any insight or recommendations? Here is a relevant take from Nate Smith:
- Running with the bulls has become a must-see annual event. The festival is called the San Fermin Festival, and it kicked off last week in Pamplona, Spain. The tradition calls for thousands of people to run ahead of six fighting bulls and six steers every morning. Each of the morning runs are followed by a bullfight, which in itself is very strange (one man’s opinion). I am thinking that one or more JustMyTake readers have participated in this ‘fun’ run?
At least 16 people are believed to have died in the festivities over the past century. Here is a quick look at the run. What a great way to start the morning.
- The U.S. trade deficit widened to $78 billion in May as imports rose 3.3% month over month to $395 billion, while exports fell 3.2% month over month to roughly $318 billion. The U.S. imported more products like pharmaceuticals, vehicles, and semiconductors for the artificial-intelligence boom, while American-made exports declined. The decline in exports was led by a large decline in sales of gold to overseas buyers.
Why does the trade deficit matter? According to the Peterson Institute for International Economics, several macroeconomic forces influence the size of trade deficit:
1. More government spending, if it leads to a larger federal budget deficit, reduces the national savings rate, and raises the trade deficit.
2. A stronger dollar makes foreign products cheaper for American consumers, while making U.S. exports more expensive for foreign buyers, again tending to raise the trade deficit.
3. A growing U.S. economy also often leads to a larger deficit, since consumers have more income to buy more goods from abroad.
The reality is that the trade deficit is neither all good or all bad. The trade deficit is about trade-offs with the U.S. economy benefiting from foreign goods and investment. So, now that I have used one minute of your time you will never get back, here is a better explanation of the trade deficit.
This is one of many takes on the trade deficit. JustMyTake presents this video as information for your review. Whether this take is political is not my concern.
Question of the Week. There are interesting answers to last week’s Question of the Week regarding a person you would like to sit next to on a three-hour flight, and what question you would ask that person:
- JFK. Did he have a clue as to his enemies?
- No doubt–gimme Jesus! I wouldn’t question him–I’d just listen and learn. Man, if you come to bat, you swing for the bleachers!
- Snoop Dog. What made you go from the thug life to entrepreneur?
- Jeff Bezos. What factors were key to creating and driving your success?
- Roger Federer. Do you miss it as much as we miss you?
Here is this week’s Question of the Week: What food would you gladly eat every day if nutrition was not important?
- With my infamous background with the sport of soccer, my phone lit up last Tuesday morning asking about the U.S. National Team’s (USMNT) poor performance against Belgium. There are too many answers to this question, but I asked my friends the comparative question which may or may not be an answer. My question back to them: How many Belgium players would start on the U.S. National Team, and how many U.S. players would start on Belgium’s national team? For clarity, not many, if any, U.S. players would start on Belgium’s national team. For that matter, I am not sure any of the U.S players would start for France, Spain, England, Norway, and Argentina.
The answer to the USMNT failure last Monday night is clear to me. It is our youth programs and their inability or refusal to develop players over getting results. Have you attended a youth soccer game recently? It is an embarrassment to listen to parents, with their child’s coach on the sideline, screaming at their kid with no respect for that coach or other children. A sickness of overbearing parents and youth clubs tolerating this behavior…which in the end provides the child or the club with no benefit.
Close friends of mine coached college soccer at the top level. I have heard people say that the college game has impaired the development of U.S. soccer players. This is wrong as top college programs bring in players who have come up through U.S. club programs (as well as internationals). The players coming through our U.S. club programs are already impaired due the nature of their Club’s management, organization, and financial objectives. I will ask again: how many of the starters from Monday night’s debacle with Belgium would start for Belgium, France, Spain, England, Norway, and Argentina? Do not tell me that college soccer impairs U.S.-based players. These players are already impaired before they reach the college level.
Landon Donovan played professionally and for the U.S. National Team. He has young children playing soccer and he has decided to try and make some changes with soccer and our youth programs. Well said, Landon Donovan.
- Pure Talent. . With an Adele-like vibe, 20-year-old Sienna Spiro—like Olivia Dean—showcases an impressive vocal range. The English songwriter, producer, and performer has taken the world by storm with her hit songs. “Die on This Hill” is about staying fiercely loyal to someone who does not always reciprocate that affection. Sienna Spiro is truly Pure Talent.
